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International Day of Older Persons: seeing the person, not the age

Age on its own says very little about what someone wants, or what they can do. This International Day of Older Persons, here is how care teams can listen first and keep choice where it belongs.

An older woman and a younger woman laughing together over a family photo album in a bright living room

The International Day of Older Persons falls on Thursday 1 October. The United Nations uses the day to call for older people’s voices to be heard in the decisions that affect them, for an end to age discrimination, and for societies that include everyone.

In care, that starts with something simple. Ask, rather than assume.

Listen first

Age tells you when someone was born. It does not tell you what they want for breakfast, whether they still manage their own money, or how they like to spend a Sunday. So ask the person, and write down what they say.

Then watch for the small habits that quietly take choice away: answering for someone, hurrying a decision, or talking over their head to a relative. Above all, speak to the person first, even when someone else is with them.

An older man showing a younger woman how to tend tomato plants at a community allotment
Independence is usually made of small things: a job someone still does, and the time to do it their way.

Independence is built from small things

Falls take away confidence as well as independence, and the NHS says changes at home really can prevent them. For example:

  • staying active, with strength and balance activities at least twice a week
  • shoes and slippers that fit well, grip, and stay on
  • grab rails in the bathroom and safety rails on steps
  • eating and drinking enough, because not doing so can leave someone lightheaded
  • looking after bone health, with calcium and enough vitamin D

If someone does fall, keep them warm and comfortable and never try to lift them on your own. Help them change position roughly every half an hour while they wait, because that helps prevent pressure damage. Call 999 if they are hurt, unwell or in pain, and use NHS 111 if you are unsure.

Loneliness is a care need too

Company matters as much as a care plan. The NHS suggests joining a group or class built around something the person enjoys, visiting places where they are simply among other people, and peer support, where people use their own experience to help each other. A GP can also arrange social prescribing, where a link worker finds local activities and support.

Start small. One short visit, one phone call, or one afternoon a week does more than a plan nobody keeps.

How training helps

Training gives your team the confidence to ask, to listen and then to act. Courses that help include:

Sources: United Nations, International Day of Older Persons; NHS, Falls; NHS, Loneliness. Correct as of 23 September 2026.

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